Let's (S)talk!

Why do we have to stalk each other when it's so much better to talk to each other? Have you ever thought that instead of stalking, talking is more interesting. It would be so much better if we can take a few minutes to talk to each other about anything; stuff that we like, music we listen to, great people we adore, people we may like, cool thought we are stuck in, people we follow in twitter, or many other things, even the unimportant ones. When talking, we don't need to always guess anything like what we do when stalking. Talking is maybe something simple and very common to do but it would be so much valuable if you do it with someone you adore. I'm used to stalking people, especially people I adore because I think it is the only way I can do to know them closer. I still do it until now but then I just realized that stalking isn't that good. I often get disappointed or even sad when I find bad news while stalking which isn't clear whether it is true or not. We can only guess and make our own perception about something without being able to ask about it directly. On the other hand, talking makes us easier to ask about something to the people we talk to easily if we have been close to them. Now I'm going to stop telling you about how good talking instead of stalking and do the opposite. You know? Balanced. Or maybe, dilemma. Hahaha. Like what I have said, talking is good. Unfortunately, talking to the people we adore is never easy, isn't it? It feels like talking to the strangers. Sometimes, when we talk to someone, we just don't know what to say anymore maybe because we are too nervous. When talking, people seem to be close to each other but maybe they are actually not but when stalking, people don't seem to know each other but maybe they know each other better. Now, I'm confused which one I should choose, talking or stalking. I think it's better to stalk each other before talk to each other, isn't it? Hahaha. Anyway, I always love those butterfly in my tummy when I talk to people I adore.